My labor with
Rachael started on a Saturday night around 9PM.
I had some pre-term labor with her around 25 weeks, so I was used to
having contractions for an hour and then having them stop. This
time they did not stop! I had contractions every 10 minutes
lasting about 30-40 seconds the entire night. I tried to sleep in
between, watched a movie, and generally rested throughout the night.
They were not terribly intense, so I let my husband sleep - I felt I
would need him well rested later when they got harder!
At around 8AM
the next morning, I was still having contractions about every 7-8
minutes now and lasting about 35-40 seconds. I still felt pretty
good. I started noticing some fluid leaking, and was unsure if it
was my water leaking or not. My midwife suggested I come into the
hospital to check. I decided to wait a little longer. I had
breakfast, took a shower, and got dressed. We arrived at the
hospital around 11AM
on Sunday. I was 4 centimeters dilated, 90% effaced, and my water
was still intact. We walked around the hospital for a couple of
hours. I finally felt too tired to walk any more. I just
wanted to lie down. The contractions were coming every 5 minutes
and were lasting about 60 seconds. Around 2PM
I decided to get into the Jacuzzi tub. This was wonderful!!
My contractions were getting closer together, and after about 30
minutes, I could no longer stand to be in the tub. I just wanted
to lie in bed. I could barely get out of the Jacuzzi room - I kept
telling my husband I couldn’t do it any more, I just wanted to sleep.
He knew the end was close and that the baby would soon be here!
I remember trying to get the gown back on to go to my room and
just could not do it. I was going to just
walk across the hall naked back to our room, but Jason said that
probably wouldn’t be such a great idea and finally got my gown on
(backwards!).
I got
back to the room and lay on my side in bed. It was not comfortable
to be on my back. I was having contractions every 2 minutes, some
double peaking and lasting a good 1 ½ minutes at least. It was
very hard to relax and concentrate. I was checked and at 9 cm!
It was around
3:00PM;
We decided to break my water to “hurry” that last centimeter along.
Not long after, I
was feeling the urge to push - I could not help but to push with the
contractions. I felt more alert than I had in a couple of hours.
I was STARVING, but the nurse suggested I push the baby out first.
I assumed the “classic” pushing position, and 45 minutes later we held
our baby girl in our arms! She was born at 4:50 PM
The entire labor lasted about 19 hours, with only 2-3 hours of it being
really intense. We waited to have the cord clamped until it
stopped pulsating, and then she nursed about 30 minutes after she was
born. It was such an amazing feeling! I could not believe I
had accomplished my goal of a natural childbirth, and I felt more
empowered by that experience than any other I have had.